I don't have to...
John 8:12 says "I (Jesus) am the Light of the world. If you follow me, you won't have to walk in darkness because you will have the light that leads to life." I love that: you won't have to walk in darkness. In other words: I tend to get tangled up in dark places; in sinful attitudes and shameful actions; but, if I stay close to the Light...if I stay close to Jesus...then I don't have to get stuck in those dark places...
- I don't have to be critical...
- I don't have to constantly be aware of my spouse's short-comings...
- I don't have to over-eat...
- I don't have to chronically bad-mouth my "friend(s)"...
- I don't have to drive too fast...
- I don't have to fudge the numbers on my tax return...
- I don't have to nit-pick my spouse to death...
Nope, I don't have to. And neither do you.
Get close to Jesus; stay in His Light; follow Him; behave like Him. And the things you think you have to do will become obsolete.