Obey

Eli was a priest during Old Testament times.  1 Samuel 2 describes some of the problems he was having (among other things) with his two sons.  Verse 12 says "Eli's sons were evil men; they did not care about the Lord." Growing up in this environment was Samuel, a young boy who'd been dedicated to the service of the Lord by his godly mother, so he was living in the temple with Eli.  Despite his surroundings, verse 18 says "...But Samuel obeyed the Lord."  Do you hear that?  Samuel obeyed the Lord.  Period.

Despite the conflicts in your marriage, you can obey the Lord.  Regardless of what your boss tells you to do, you can obey the Lord.  In spite of what your friends call "fun", you can obey the Lord.

You can do it!  Be like Samuel:  Just obey.