struggle
A moth and a baby chick have one thing in common: They both have to struggle to emerge from their birthplace. The moth is held tightly in it's cocoon; the baby chick in it's egg. Why the struggle? It's the struggle that makes them both strong. If help was given in either case, the moth or the chick would emerge fragile and unable to deal with the pressures of the outside world. But instead, the struggle produces strength and the strength encourages perseverance and the perseverance develops endurance and the endurance...
Sound familiar? Romans 5:3-5 says "...when we run into problems and trials [struggles], ...we know that they help us develop endurance. 4 And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. 5 And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love."
Trust God to see you through your struggle...not around it. He knows what He's doing and He wants you to emerge from the struggle stronger, more confident and filled with His hope.