It's hard to be good when others are bad.
It's hard to be good when others are bad. Maybe your spouse is unkind or your mother in-law is impossible. Perhaps your boss is cruel or your siblings simply don't like you. Whatever the situation, behaving in a godly way may seem impossible. But we have a great example in the young boy (soon to be "God's man") Samuel. While his guardian Eli the priest was failing as a parent, Samuel stood firm. In the time shortly before King David came on the scene, Samuel 2:12 tells us that "Eli's sons were evil men; they did not care about the Lord." And in spite of the disrespect, immorality, disobedience and shameless deeds described in Samuel 2:11-36, verse 18 of that same chapter stands out as a beckon of hope for anyone who's ever been surrounded by bad people: "But Samuel obeyed the Lord."
- Even when his brothers were behaving like pagans, Samuel obeyed the Lord.
- Even when Eli was blind to his sons' misbehavior, Samuel obeyed the Lord.
- Even though Samuel grew up in an environment full of poor adult examples, he obeyed the Lord.
- And although scripture goes on to tell us that, in the end, "Eli fell backward off his chair and broke his neck because he was old, fat and [blind], " Samuel obeyed the Lord (4:18).
What about you? Are you obeying the Lord?
- Even when your sister won't apologize?
- Even when slander consumes your office environment?
- Even when financial strain threatens to destroy your home?
- Even when your spouse is caught up in inappropriate behavior?
Will you obey the Lord? The good news is that there's always a reward for obedience. Chapters 2-12 tell us that "the Lord was with Samuel as he grew up"; "he pleased the Lord and all the people"; he anointed the first two kings of Israel; he was the last and most effective of Israel's judges; and he is listed in the Hall of Faith in Hebrews 11.
I'd say those are some great rewards. Try it...God WILL see your obedience and reward you accordingly.